Sometimes I think I’m too nice. Remember I told you I ordered a new sex toy? And that I didn’t want to say what it was because I wanted to surprise Boy Toy with it? Well my toy has arrived. And as soon as it did, I emailed Boy Toy:

Hey Boy Toy,

My new toy has arrived, and I’m pretty excited about it! I’ll need a nice, quiet evening with you so we can try it. Pick your date

Your Owner

His answer definitely made me smile:

I think I’m worried.

It is wise of him, to be worried. Because I ordered… Read the rest of this entry »

I have been hesitant to be dominant with Boy Toy for the last few weeks. There’s been the recent head butting, but it’s not just that. He’s been undertaking new work projects and since he really wants this to succeed, he works a LOT. He’s so tired and stressed… How can I, in good conscience, make him submit to me? He probably needed the break.

But at the same time, when done well, it’s good for us. It refocuses him, for lack of a better word. I’m still not sure if the “timing” thing is all in my head, if he’d melt no matter when I do it. But I kinda think I need to follow my gut feeling on this one.

Some of you might be thinking, “Yeah but, it should be about what YOU want!” Maybe. But that’s not how I dominate him. For me, it’s all about the effect my actions have on him. If he hates it or gets angry, it won’t turn me on either.

All this to say, it had been a while. Read the rest of this entry »

Meet my vibrator, the G Twist. I call him the Smurfator, obviously because he’s blue.

He is my very first, and I got him a little more than a year ago. As common-place as a vibrator may seem to you, in a way, this puppy marked the beginning of my sexual explorations.

When it comes to sex, I’m a late bloomer. Well, not completely, as I had sex for the first time when I was 16. I believe that’s a reasonnably young age. But for some reason, my sexuality never developped much more than that, for the longuest time. Read the rest of this entry »

This week, I went to my favorite online sex toys store, JT Stockroom, and created myself a Wish List. It’s quite cool, really. You pick the items you’re lusting after and add them to your list, which you can then share with anyone you like. What’s so cool about it is that the people you share your list with can, if they want, purchase these goodies for you. Once they picked an item from your list, they simply go through the checkout process, and the item is shipped to you (well, in this case, me). Isn’t that neat?

I think it is, anyway. There’s certainly no harm in trying, right? Besides, it’s a lot of fun, seeing Boy Toy’s reactions to some of the items I added to my list Read the rest of this entry »

Boy Toy and I have been so busy lately, there simply hasn’t been any time for play. And maybe I’m wrong, but I have this notion that for him to be a happy Boy Toy, there has to be a minimum of it. I have noticed regular play has a positive effect on our relationship, it brings us closer together, creates this sense of intimacy, like we’re two naughty co-conspirators. Besides, I just enjoy playing with him. I love seeing how what I’m doing affects him.

As I said earlier this week, it was time we play. I had been craving it for a while. Read the rest of this entry »

Once upon a time, this little girl thought she would never do any sex that got into this nasty little hole, the anus. Ok, I admit that I tried anal sex with an ex of mine, before meeting Boy Toy. But just this one guy, only a few times, and it wasn’t really my cup of tea. So I thought this was simply off-limits for me.

But then I met Boy Toy. He challenged every one of my preconceptions about sex. It was easy, I liked him a lot and he was so sexy. We started doing naughty things. Then naughtier things. Then we decided he would give me a monthly allowance to buy sex toys. If you’ve read me before, you may know that the first thing I bought, using this allowance, was the CB6000. I bought it online and had it delivered at Boy Toy’s place, as a surprise. Apparently, he was quite flustered when he opened that box…

But this isn’t what this post is about. This is about anal stuff. By the time I got to my second or third order, I had read something online, I just can’t remember exactly where or what, about how erotic using anal beads was, and how pulling them out at the time of orgasm intensified sensations. Obviously, I had to give it a shot. Read the rest of this entry »

One of the many things Boy Toy introduced me to, since we started dating, is sex toys. That’s right, I had never played with any before, not even a dildo or vibrator! And sometimes, it’s necessary for me to carry some of these toys from my place to his, and vice versa. Let’s say I want to surprise him and handcuff him as soon as I walk in, well I need to have the handcuffs with me, right?

So one day, here I was commuting back home with handcuffs and a vibrator in my backpack. Then the thought struck me: what if something happened and I got “discovered”? An accident. Or someone searching my pack, for whatever reason. Or I drop it and the contents spill all over the floor, in plain view. How dreadful! But what an exciting thought! Makes me feel like such a naughty girl, with my secret stash of sex toys innocently tucked away in my bag. And I started wondering, what about these other commuters. What have they got in THEIR bags? Am I the only one with a secret?

It can be a heady feeling, to have a naughty little secret like that. I don’t know why, but it feels empowering. It’s silly, really, that it should make me feel that way. Same as when I walk around in public thinking “HAH, I’m Kink Unleashed and they don’t know it!”

Note from Elle: This post was written by Boy Toy, as an assignment I gave him.

I had worn cock rings before but only in private, never to take a stroll down the street and I would have never even thought about dancing on a busy dance floor with one!

But then Elle, or my Owner, demanded it, and it made me damn nervous. The thought of it falling off was very scary, and I’m sure it could in… extreme weather conditions… you know what I mean… But the night was warm, so I thought I’d try to satisfy her requirements. Friends were over, so I ran into the bathroom to slip it on. Read the rest of this entry »

I love visiting the hardware store with Boy Toy. I love walking the aisles with him, trying to come up with all kinds of kinky uses for the items on display. Whenever we go, I almost never fail to take a look at the locks and at the chains. If anybody asks, we have a fence or shed to lock up, now don’t we? We’re such naughty people!

After all, why not make our own sex toys? They’ll probably end up being better than some of the stuff you can buy on the Internet, and will certainly cost a hell of a lot less. They will also fit our wants better.

A few months ago, we purchased some chain. Boy Toy has a fetish for anything that’s metal, so I figured we could certainly come up with some interesting use for it. When we got home, we started playing around with it and soon had the beginnings of a harness put together. We used some links from a piece of chain mail he has, to attach the bits of chain to metal rings. One of the rings serves as a cock ring. It’s a simple matter to cut the chain into pieces of different lengths. The chains attach to the “cock ring” and to a metal slave collar Boy Toy has. Read the rest of this entry »

As I’ve mentioned in a previous post, Boy Toy and I own a CB6000. It’s a great chastity device, but CBs have been known to be not 100% secure. GoodHubby from The Chastity Experiment will tell you, he slipped out of his CB2000 while working out!

Well, I was surfing the web today and I stumbled upon a post on The-F-Mag about the KSD-G3, a device meant to make the CB6000 “pull-out proof”.

The device can be bought from keptforher.com, who has this to say about it:

“The G3 incorporates two “ribs” that are designed to keep the shaft in place and not allow for pulling out. The front rib has a slight forward slant to push the shaft forward. The rear rib along with the front rib are designed to push down, thus preventing unwarranted pulling out by the male. All of the surfaces are smooth and edges are rounded for a comfortable fit and long-term wear.”

Happy chastity!