Sooner than expected?
It’s excruciating, watching my package’s progress on the tracking website. Because it has to go through customs, it’s much slower than it would otherwise be, which explains why I ordered on November 6th and the original delivery date was November 17th. That date’s been updated a few times since: it went to November 16th, then the 13th and finally, back to the 16th. So yeah, I should get the Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device Monday 
I wonder if customs will search the box, and if they do, what they’ll think?
It’s amazing that Boy Toy still has no clue what’s coming his way. When it came back in stock, my first reaction was to let him know it was available, before even ordering the thing. I tried to cover for it by saying I didn’t think I could afford it. Then a few days later, it went back out of stock and I made sure to tell him! He seemed relieved, the poor thing.
A few days ago, we were checking out some of my stats together and he opened the RSS feed reader, which lists my recent post titles along with the first few lines. Right at the top of the page was my November 17 post and its first line: “That’s when I should receive the new Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device I ordered from Extreme Restraints.” He sat there staring at the screen so long, I was convinced he’d read that. He made no comment though, and I didn’t bring it up…
Later this week, I ordered some books online. They arrived within 2 days (gotta love that!) and since Boy Toy works from home, he was there to get the door when the package was delivered. Once it arrived, I told him he’d have to get the door for a second package either Friday or Monday and he had no reaction whatsoever. I thought his lack of curiosity strange. How could he not be nervous about my expecting a mysterious package? I felt so torn! I almost told him about what I’d ordered, right then and there.
But I waited, and today when he mentioned how he had to work downstairs Thursday to make sure he didn’t miss the delivery guy for the books, I reminded him that he’d have to do that again Monday. Once again, no reaction whatsoever. So I looked at him and said “You aren’t curious at all, are you?” When he asked what he should be curious about and I told him the package, he looked up and said: “Yeah, you’re expecting more books, aren’t you?” I couldn’t keep a straight face. I smiled, said “yeah” and just walked into the bathroom to cover my sudden amusement.
Now, this leaves me in a bit of a quandary. I loved the idea that when the package arrived, he’d be worried about it all day but if he thinks it’s books… What should I do? I was thinking of instructing him to email me as soon as the box arrives, and then I could tell him to open it and put it on. Or… Anyone has a better idea? I’m looking for whatever has the strongest effect on him.
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7 Comments »
November 15th, 2009 at 5:34 am
You might enjoy http://www.powerinpractice.com/2009/03/06/episode-14-rapture-mindfucks-with-flagg/
November 15th, 2009 at 7:16 am
You know Boy Toy better than anyone. Claire and I talked about this when you posted you’d placed the order.
If it was me I would want to be there to see his reaction and enjoy it when the box was opened. Also if it was negative, or different to what I hoped, to do early damage limitation. I hope I’d also keep the long term picture in my mind and not get carried away too much.
I see two ways to play this. Either building anticipation and “fear” or springing a total surprise. If I were in your fortunate position I’d probably put him in bondage, get him aroused and then produce it whilst sharing wicked fantasies as a total surprise.
The logical thing might be to then leave him to play with it, find what adjustments need to be made, and so forth before engaging in any key holding. Unless this is the holy grail of CD’s then locking it on for a month, or evenn overnight, just like that, isn’t likely to be work.
Work on the Pandora’s box principle. As a dom you can lock him up and enjoy the power and control of “forced” chastity. Or you can put the temptation in front of him and wait until the inevitable happens.
Ever watched a young child approach a dog they want to pet but are afraid of. From a distance the desire to pet the dog is such they approach but as they get closer fear rises and they reach a point of balance. Approach/avoidance is a fun game to play with chastity since one can control both aspects to a fair degree. The desired outcome being “OMG what have I done/agreed to?” on the part of the locked.
It sounds like Boy Toy is already very drawn to and afraid off your soon to arrive toy. You probably don’t need to ramp up the fear side. That still leaves the options of reducing the fear or increasing the desire. Plus choosing the setting, producing it whilst sharing coffee in a restaurant is clearly likely to be different to unveiling it in the dungeon, er bedroom.
Anyway, I’m rambling. You clearly have many options and the key to your choice is your long term goals.
Michael X
November 15th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
I can only speak for myself, but I would want to be there to see his expression, to tease him, to let him see my face and how excited I was.
Whatever you decide, I hope you both really enjoy yourselves
November 15th, 2009 at 11:19 pm
Michael X: Thanks for the link and the ton of input! I listened to about half the MP3. I have to admit I have a hard time because of the poor quality of the recording. English isn’t my first language and when the sound’s not as clear as it could be, it’s more difficult for me. What I did get was fascinating and I’ll try to get around to listening to the rest of it. That being said, you’ve given me a lot to think about. Too bad I don’t have more time until the package arrives
November 15th, 2009 at 11:22 pm
Lady Julia: The idea of seeing his expression is very appealing, I agree. On the other hand, if he opens the box while I’m at work, I know he’d email me and whatever he’d have to say would be priceless as well.
But yes, perhaps seeing it first hand. Like Michael X says, it might be good to detect a negative reaction, should there be one. I guess I could easily drop some offhand remark which will make him worry about it all day, staring suspiciously at the box. For one thing, it won’t be the same kind of box as the book seller. He probably wouldn’t notice that on his own but I’m sure I can fix it
November 16th, 2009 at 3:31 am
“Too bad I don’t have more time until the package arrives”
But you do have as much as you wish afterwards.
- Michael
November 17th, 2009 at 12:03 am
Michael X, that’s only too true
As it turns out, and you can see in the review I posted, the carrier asked for 88$ COD when they delivered the box, which Boy Toy paid for me. There’s never any custom fees when I order books… Still, Boy Toy didn’t notice and didn’t wonder. I was at work, wondering what to do about it lol…
In the end, I decided to go for complete surprise. I was pissed off at the COD fees anyway and couldn’t think of anything to say to fuck with him. So when I got home, I sat down to open the box and that’s when he came down. His reaction was kind of mild, despite his surprise and his admitting he was scared, and he immediately suggested we take pictures as we unpack everything so I could review the thing here (trying to delay?). And so, that’s what we did. He’s wearing the device right now and seems… happy. Which is great, I want to put him through a few tests. More on this later