For some reason, tonight I found myself thinking about a girl I used to see whenever I’d go out, quite a few years ago. She was tall, very tall, with a lithe figure and long, dark, straight hair. She was pretty. I was young and her looks combined with her height and the air she had about herself were intimidating to me.

She had a boyfriend, a very big guy. Tall, muscular and just plain bulky. He wasn’t my type at all and I remember wondering a little about them. What did she see in him? Not that he was ugly, just not my type. Older, maybe?

I haven’t seen this girl in years. I never talked to her, I don’t know her. I just saw her regularly.

With the experiences these last few years have brought me, I now think she was a Domme. Thinking back on it, the guy did give the impression that he was following her like a little puppy, despite his size. But back then, I was very naive and would have never guessed at or thought of such a thing.

I wonder if people see Boy Toy and I the way I saw her, back then? I am not as tall as she was, and Boy Toy is not as bulky as her guy, but still… compared to me he’s quite tall, big and muscular. He’s older than me, too. And he’s my Boy Toy, so perhaps to others, it looks like he’s the obedient little puppy. Who knows?

I was once told by a guy who used to see me and my girlfriend at the clubs all the time, before he knew us, that we seemed “unattainable” or “unapproachable” to him. Intimidating, even. I find that very funny. Truth is, I’m actually pretty shy. I’m a nice girl, too. Always polite (or almost always!), I like being helpful and smiling at people. Yeah, very intimidating, hmm?

So we really never do know how strangers perceive us. Not that it really matters, in the end. I’m just curious

In the shower again. He fingered me to orgasm. I touched him all over, telling him how hot he was. How much I enjoyed owning such a sexy Boy Toy. I grabbed his cock and tested a few statements such as “You like being owned by me.” or “I love locking your cock in a metal cage.” Sure enough, some caused a noticeable reaction in the meat. I made sure he wasn’t coming, though. Finally, he got out of the shower. Still rinsing out my hair, I called “Don’t get dressed!”

I fitted The Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device on him as soon as I got out. Then I had him stand in the corner for 10 minutes. “Prevention punishment”, I called it. To show him that I could and that he should take any threat of punishment seriously. He said I’d been reading too much online these days, to which I replied “Boy Toy, I’ve been reading online for 2 years.” This produced the expected, satisfying blush.

Sometimes, it’s good to be Boy Toy’s Owner.

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I asked Boy Toy to write about his perspective on my recent purchase of The Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device. What follows is a very hot look into his submissive psyche.

I never knew she had managed to order it so I was surprised, to say the least. I did know I’d probably get no choice since she was really wanting the thing. Or maybe I was just counting my days until I was locked up for good, or something like that. But then I saw her holding The Fort in front of me. My initial thoughts of masturbating without her consent until she could finally order it were out the door, I felt it was too late. I felt fear then, knowing she had caught me off guard, before I could plan better, and that made me wet and excited inside. My owner was way, way over my head and knew how to outsmart me.

At first glance it looked like a CB, only fortified. In my mind, the fact that it’s made of steel brings forth the ‘inescapable’ factor: it’s not as if it can be easily removed with a grinder. In addition, it’s as if she is making this statement: “I want you really locked up and secure and submissive, I’ve decided I own you fully 24/7 and now we can start your training.” I also thought that after two weeks of this, she could totally control all the finances and decide I’d be paying for the Fort or any additional toys. Well, she makes more than me right now so I’m at a disadvantage in a way, since she can afford such things. This is kinda hot, for some reason.

Then there were other thoughts like “Is she gonna want me to be naked all the time to see her property in solid fashion accessory or to see her property all locked up, displayed for her?” and the eventual psychological effects that might come from being locked into it for a long time.

So I was kinda mind fucked right on the spot but after a little while I managed to pull myself together, thinking that she would want me to cum at some point, and I might have a chance to prevent the thing from being locked back on since I’d be out of it.

Intrigued a little as well, she easily coaxed me into trying it on only to jump at locking it. Hearing the lock close felt like an instant step towards subspace. And I thought “Holy fuck, this isn’t just plastic it’s like, urm… metal!!!”

After a few minutes of wearing the Fort, for some reason, I was overwhelmed by strange thoughts of wearing a collar with it and being a total slave boy to her. Maybe the fear of her having total control yet in another way was nice… Then I had other dark thoughts of more locking on of stuff for hours or weeks. I finally cleared my head when she asked me to get on the elliptical machine. I was wondering what she was up to, what she was planning or if she was fucking with my head while I was training with nothing on but this thing locked on me. I initially thought that from then on, she wanted me to train only on the elliptical, indoors, instead of going jogging outside, so that I could be naked all the time at home!

Let’s just say that later when I realized pull-out was possible, I kinda came a little closer to reality. Heh! Guess it’s not fair for her, I think she wanted to see the real effects of “No more orgasms at all” like it felt at first. The difference knowing I can pull out is, how can I explain… Knowing there is zero way out, was like : “Oh fuck, urm, we do things your way, no prob.” while knowing there is pull-out possibilities, it’s now “Ok, nice fashion accessory, I’ll try to deal with it.”

Please note that Boy Toy wrote this before we fitted the device with a chain around his waist, holding it up and preventing him from pulling out. I don’t think he’s laughing anymore

I may have found a solution to the pull-out issue, as well as the weight of the device!

Boy Toy had mentioned it would need a kind of belt. He also told me that when he went for a walk while wearing the thing, the other day, he tied a string around his waist, passing it underneath the pins holding the two parts of the device together. This got me thinking. I didn’t want a string or leather belt, metal seems more secure to me. And it so happens that we have plenty of chains here. Then it struck me: why not try passing the pins that are attached to the tube through links in the chain?

I took out a fairly small and smooth piece of chain (I want him to be comfortable, after all!) and found larger, circular rings which I opened with pliers, passed through the last links in the chain and closed back up. I called Boy Toy over for a fitting and the result is pretty awesome!

Not only does it hold the chastity cage up, it also prevents him from being able to pull his cock out of the tube. Sure, he could easily cut the chain with pliers, but then he’d have to explain the broken chain to me… I feel much more confident that he is securely locked away, with the chain. And he was leaking profusely all over the place so obviously the psychological effect is back.

It did help with the comfort factor while wearing pants, as well. Boy Toy has always told me that he feels more comfortable not wearing pants, when in a chastity cage, because the pants push the device into him. With the Fort combined with the chain, though, it seems as if there is much less discomfort. He was quite amazed when he sat down and nothing “caught”.

The only drawback is that since the chain holds the device up, when Boy Toy put pants on, he had a quite noticeable bulge. Kinda looks like he has a hard-on, or a very fucking big cock. So yeah, I guess there might still be some more adjustments.

There’s another noteworthy thing which happened with the device lately. I mentioned we switched to the smallest ring and that it fit very nicely. However, one night, Boy Toy woke me up at 4 am telling me he was in pain. Apparently, this ring is just too tight for his nightly erections. We’ve now switched back to a slightly larger ring. With the chain around his waist, I think we’ve got the right fit.

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Yesterday, I told you all about how I ordered The Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device from Extreme Restraints, what the packaging looked like, what it included and how the device compared to the CB6000. Now it’s time to continue my review, with yet more pictures.

Once we were done unpacking and examining everything, all that was left to do was put the device to the test. One thing that did not come in the box is an instruction manual. There was no indication anywhere as to which piece went where. Nothing.

Having used the CB6000 before, we were convinced we’d figure it out easily. I mean, we knew the tube goes over the penis, and the ring goes around the cock and balls (obviously). The spacers, however, turned out to be another story.

Boy Toy started putting things together but after 5 to 10 minutes, we still weren’t sure of how to proceed. A few more trials, and I went to get my laptop so I could check out the pictures on the Extreme Restraints website and see how they did it.

From the picture, it looks like this guy uses the big spacer just behind the padlock. I went on to read the device’s description and sure enough, there were what you could call directions for use: “The spacers can be used in various ways by positioning it in-between the cock ring and cage or on the outside. By using one or all 3 spacers most men should obtain a very good fit and not be able to pull through.”

As for the ring, I selected the one that was closest in size to the ring Boy Toy uses when he wears the CB6000.

We decided to arrange the spacers like the guy above because putting the big spacer in between the tube and the ring made for way too much space. But there’s one little problem with this configuration. The guy on the site is holding the device and it turns out it’s for a reason… The pins stick way out in the back!

Moving around a bit, trying the thing out, Boy Toy didn’t find the pins to be that bothersome, so we decided we’d see how it’d go. The other weird thing about this design is that if you use the big spacer on the outside like we did, the padlock kinda sticks way out. And it clonks when Boy Toy walks around! One thing’s for sure, I know where he is in the house when he’s in the Fort. Putting a rubber band around the padlock would probably fix this but we couldn’t get our hands on one at the time.

Other than that, Boy Toy initially found the device to be quite comfortable. He said it felt just like the CB6000, except heavier. I’m not sure what psychological effect the thing had on him but he sure seemed happy, last night. I followed him around the house, badgering him with questions. How did it feel, that it was stainless steel rather than see-through plastic? This made him blush and he suddenly realized that he couldn’t break out of this device, if worse came to worse. He looked scared. He told me the thing felt totally secure.

Then I decided to put it to a different test: I ordered Boy Toy to strip and had him climb on the elliptical trainer. I had him workout for 5 minutes. When he was done and I told him how comfortable he looked exercising in the device, he said that it’s wearing the chastity device with pants which usually causes a problem, as the pants will push the thing up into him.

He stayed in his new stainless steel chastity cage all through the night and apparently, he slept horribly. But to be fair, he usually sleeps baldy when he first starts wearing the CB and then he gets used to it. This morning, he started pushing down on the tube and managed to pull his cock completely out of the device! He was using the third ring in size. Since he could pull out, I had him change to the smallest ring. I had to leave for work shortly after so I made sure to hide a key in the house, and I instructed him to let me know should there be any unusual discomfort.

I received an email from him towards the end of the workday. He said he had several kinky dreams during the night and that the psychological aspects seemed to follow him into his dreams. He also told me that when he went out for a walk, he had to tie a string around his waist to hold up the Fort, as it was hanging down too much due to its weight. This caused the pins to poke into his skin while walking, which was very uncomfortable.

When I got back home, I asked him to cut and grind the pins, since he would never wear the device with the big spacer in between the tube and the ring. He obliged.

As you can see, the pins aren’t sticking way out anymore. But notice how low the device hangs? That’s due to its weight. It hangs so much that even with the smallest ring, Boy Toy managed to pull out of the thing. The picture below is proof.

He would probably have a damn hard time pushing his penis back in, so if he did pull out, maybe I’d find out. Maybe. Nonetheless, for me, this totally takes away the value of the device. Boy Toy says that there needs to be some sort of lockable belt to keep the device up higher. I guess that could work, and I’ve instructed him to find a solution, as an assignment. Needless to say, I’m disappointed.

However, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t consider the Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device. I mean, if Boy Toy could pull out of it, he can certainly pull out of the CB6000. I just don’t think he’s ever given it enough of a try, so he didn’t know he could. I imagine some men would not be able to pull out. No one’s made the same.

This cage does have its appeal. The stainless steel is definitely hot. It feels more solid and secure than transparent plastic. Its heaviness can be a drag but it can also act as a constant reminder that one’s cock is under lock. It’s comfortable, too, once you get rid of the extra lenght on the pins!

In the end, it’ a personal choice whether this is or isn’t the device for you. I’ve provided all the information I could. But stay tuned, I may yet publish a part 3 of my review, after we have really test driven the Fort.

Yes, it has finally arrived, and I’ve decided to provide a complete review for my readers, along with pictures of the Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device (what a ridiculously long name!). But first, if you just happened to stumble on my blog and you know nothing about chastity play, you’ve never dreamed of locking up your man’s penis and you wonder why in hell I’d want to do that, you might want to read this post, this one or even this one.

Anyway, as mentioned previously, I ordered the The Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device from Extreme Restraints. It’s only my second time ordering from Extreme Restraints and I’d say everything went pretty smoothly. However, I must mention that I did enter my email address where it says “Mail me when this is in stock” on their site a while back but never got any email advising me that The Fort was back in stock. I just so happened to check, early one morning, and wonder of wonders, it was available. A couple of days only after I ordered, the device went out of stock again and it’s still unavailable as of now.

On the day I ordered, I received an email listing the item ordered, the amount and the shipping/billing addresses, as well as a second confirmation email with the order numbers. A little later that day, I received an email from UPS to notify me that they had received the electronic shipment information for my order from XR, LLC, which is how Extreme Restraints calls themselves on credit card statements, boxes, etc., for privacy’s sake. They provided a tracking number and the date of the scheduled delivery. I seem to remember this email saying I’d get my order by November 17, but now that I look again, I realize it says November 16, which turned out to be correct.

So shipping went well. But I do have a beef with the $88 import charges UPS requested upon delivery of the box. I mean, Extreme Restraints already charged me shipping fees. Add that to the price of the device ($249) and that comes to quite a chunk off the wallet. Or purse, in my case. For the record, here is what Extreme Restraints has to say about shipping internationally (because no, I am not in the US): “Orders over $200 are shipped through UPS with rates starting at $40. At checkout you will be given the exact shipping costs and options. Most orders will arrive within 1-2 weeks and will be not charged a customs fee by the receiver’s government. Occasionally some packages will be stopped/delayed by customs and a custom fees may apply. Please note that we do not issue refunds for seized items not returned to us by customs.” Whether I was supposed to be charged custom fees or not is unclear, as there seems to be a typo. Whatever, when Boy Toy emailed me today to tell me I had received a package and he had had to pay 88$ COD, I was not a happy camper. Extreme Restraints people, if you read this, perhaps you should warn your customers more directly, or use a different shipping method?

The box was quite small. UPS website said it weighted 1 lbs. Once opened, it revealed a second, smaller box (which seemed a little beaten, but not too badly considering how far it had to go), a bit of packing paper and an Extreme Restraints catalog which held a little sample pack of lube. The smaller box contained the device, of course. It includes the tube, five rings, the pin to hold the ring and tube together, and 3 spacers (2 small, 1 large). Each piece was individually wrapped in plastic, with the pin and spacers together in a little ziplock baggie.

According to the Extreme Restraints website, the tube measures 4″ in length, 1.5″ in width and 1.25″ inside diameter. I felt the inside of the tube with my fingers, knowing Boy Toy would be putting a very sensitive body part in there, and found it to be quite smooth. The inside of the tube doesn’t look quite as shiny as the outside of the thing, but who cares, right?

The Fort comes with 5 differently sized rings, all made out of heavy stainless steel. They are hinged, which makes it easy to put on, as we soon found out. When Boy Toy saw all those rings, he said “No wonder the thing’s so expensive!” And no wonder the box is so heavy for its size, too. Perhaps the seller could offer the possibility of ordering only one or two rings with the device? Just a thought.

We took out the CB6000 for comparison.

As you can see, they are very similar devices. One has to wonder if there aren’t issues with the creators of the CB line? In fact, I wonder why the creators of the CB never made a stainless steel device before. Stainless steel is so much sexier than plastic…  But that’s my opinion, and I digress. The tubes are very similar in shape and size, with the Fort being a little chunkier and perhaps shorter. I’d have to check the actual measurements to be sure. Both devices work pretty much the same way, with a ring around the cock and balls, and pins and spacers to hold together the tube and ring, using a padlock to secure the whole.

With the Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device thoroughly examined, all that was left to do was try it on Boy Toy. And that’s exactly what we did. I’ll tell you all about it in part 2 of my review, along with more  images of the Fort!

It’s excruciating, watching my package’s progress on the tracking website. Because it has to go through customs, it’s much slower than it would otherwise be, which explains why I ordered on November 6th and the original delivery date was November 17th. That date’s been updated a few times since: it went to November 16th, then the 13th and finally, back to the 16th. So yeah, I should get the Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device Monday

I wonder if customs will search the box, and if they do, what they’ll think?

It’s amazing that Boy Toy still has no clue what’s coming his way. When it came back in stock, my first reaction was to let him know it was available, before even ordering the thing. I tried to cover for it by saying I didn’t think I could afford it. Then a few days later, it went back out of stock and I made sure to tell him! He seemed relieved, the poor thing.

A few days ago, we were checking out some of my stats together and he opened the RSS feed reader, which lists my recent post titles along with the first few lines. Right at the top of the page was my November 17 post and its first line: “That’s when I should receive the new Fort Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Device I ordered from Extreme Restraints.” He sat there staring at the screen so long, I was convinced he’d read that. He made no comment though, and I didn’t bring it up…

Later this week, I ordered some books online. They arrived within 2 days (gotta love that!) and since Boy Toy works from home, he was there to get the door when the package was delivered. Once it arrived, I told him he’d have to get the door for a second package either Friday or Monday and he had no reaction whatsoever. I thought his lack of curiosity strange. How could he not be nervous about my expecting a mysterious package? I felt so torn! I almost told him about what I’d ordered, right then and there.

But I waited, and today when he mentioned how he had to work downstairs Thursday to make sure he didn’t miss the delivery guy for the books, I reminded him that he’d have to do that again Monday. Once again, no reaction whatsoever.  So I looked at him and said “You aren’t curious at all, are you?” When he asked what he should be curious about and I told him the package,  he looked up and said: “Yeah, you’re expecting more books, aren’t you?” I couldn’t keep a straight face. I smiled, said “yeah” and just walked into the bathroom to cover my sudden amusement.

Now, this leaves me in a bit of a quandary. I loved the idea that when the package arrived, he’d be worried about it all day but if he thinks it’s books… What should I do? I was thinking of instructing him to email me as soon as the box arrives, and then I could tell him to open it and put it on. Or… Anyone has a better idea? I’m looking for whatever has the strongest effect on him.

So I did a pretty good run with my “Rejects” the last few weeks, but there’s only so many pictures I can pull out of the old archives. I wanted something new for this week, yet did not manage to take any pictures until tonight… and I had company! When my friend left around 9h30, I ran downstairs with the camera, frolicked a little in front of the mirror with my new négligé, and voilà!

Happy HNT!

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