Things are moving along. Yup, I think there is definite progress: I’m convinced Boy Toy will soon beg for my domination.

I’ve continued with the teasing. You know, the idle comment (you’re a good Boy Toy), the occasional firm butt or cock grab… My hints have become pretty clear: “You want me to dominate you, you’ll have to beg for it.” To which he replied: “I know. I will… I just have to be in the right mood.” Fair enough, I can wait.

But it’s getting there. He’s been having kinky dreams, for one thing. And he’s been making comments too, calling me his Owner often. Last week’s photoshoot left him dripping (you’ll see why next HNT). Of course, the fact that we haven’t been having that much sex, leaving him orgasm-less for over a week, probably helped too. Because I still won’t let him masturbate, despite denying that I dominate him. I guess that’s just the last bit of control I couldn’t let slip away.

I’ve been wondering what I should do when he finally begs. Make him get on his knees and beg “more convincingly”? Tie him up and fuck him with my strap-on, after having made him beg for it? Go right into the two-weeks-as-my-slave that he still owes me, since months ago? I’m open to suggestions…

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On a (slightly) different note, a new contract might be in the making. As you may know, Boy Toy and I used to have a cigarette smoking contract. Last January, Boy Toy asked me to let it go because he believed he was starting to like the kinky side of the agreement a bit too much, and because he wanted to try quitting on his own terms. So we gave it up.

Nine months later, he still smokes just as much. More, even, than when the contract was in effect. That is not acceptable: there’s been no progress whatsoever, and I had to give up on a set of rules I really enjoyed! So I brought it up, this weekend. Mentioned how there’d been no progress at all, quite the contrary, and that it was time for a new contract. His answer was to blush, which makes me think the new contract is a good idea.

I have to think it through, though. The first contract ended up being a problem because kneeling in front of me to smoke is kinky and arouses him, which made him like the cigarettes even more…The rules have to please me, and discourage him from smoking. Any ideas? Perhaps a system that rewards not smoking?

For what it’s worth, this was the original agreement:

Contract regarding cigarette smoking

We the undersigned parties recognize and accept the submission of boy toy to Owner, in regards to the number of cigarettes boy toy will smoke every day. This will continue for an undetermined period of time, until Owner believes boy toy is ready for the next step towards becoming a non-smoker.

It is agreed that during this period, boy toy will be under Owner’s direction and control when it comes to smoking, and that he will be subject to the following conditions:

• Boy toy will be allowed to smoke no more than 8 cigarettes in a day.
• When in Owner’s presence, if alone with her, boy toy will smoke his cigarettes kneeling in front of Owner, and thank her for letting him smoke.
• If boy toy smokes one cigarette more than the allotted 8 a day, he will not be allowed to give Owner oral sex for a period of 5 days.
• If, during this 5 days period, boy toy smokes another cigarette more than the allotted 8 a day, he will have to wear a cage [this refers to a chastity device] for 10 days.
• If boy toy goes over his limit yet again during this period, his punishment will be left to Owner’s discretion.
• Boy toy will keep good count of how many cigarettes he smokes, and will never lie about it.
• Lying about how many cigarettes have been smoked will result in a period of 10 days without being allowed to give oral sex, and wearing a cage.

Boy toy willingly submits himself to the above described conditions, commits himself to the ultimate goal of becoming a non-smoker, and accepts his Owner’s directions when it comes to smoking cigarettes.