Comments on: The problem with communication… http://www.kinkunleashed.com/2009/06/30/the-problem-with-communication/ Ramblings of a playful girl Fri, 30 Jul 2010 19:04:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Elle http://www.kinkunleashed.com/2009/06/30/the-problem-with-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-4175 Elle Mon, 06 Jul 2009 00:50:45 +0000 http://www.kinkunleashed.com/?p=364#comment-4175 danimo21: I imagine it's something that comes with time and experience, and with getting to know each other. I have a colleague who's been with her boyfriend for like 20 years, they have kids and everything, and she says, as much as she loves him, she wouldn't go through the first five years again. I guess that's when you get to know your partner, and you both "adjust" to one another. Boy Toy and I are sure doing that... And I admit that over the last two years, there HAS been some progress. danimo21: I imagine it’s something that comes with time and experience, and with getting to know each other. I have a colleague who’s been with her boyfriend for like 20 years, they have kids and everything, and she says, as much as she loves him, she wouldn’t go through the first five years again. I guess that’s when you get to know your partner, and you both “adjust” to one another. Boy Toy and I are sure doing that… And I admit that over the last two years, there HAS been some progress.

]]> By: danimo21 http://www.kinkunleashed.com/2009/06/30/the-problem-with-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-4150 danimo21 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 10:31:57 +0000 http://www.kinkunleashed.com/?p=364#comment-4150 i can very much relate to this one. . . elias and i have been having trouble communicating recently as well, in large part due to the way we respectively attempt to communicate. eerily similar to you and boy toy, i can get worked up at the drop of a hat, my emotions falling fluidly from my sleeve, where i keep my heart when we're talking, because i too verbalize rather than internalize many of my thoughts. . . and he <B>I>can</I></B> be the same but he <B><I>tends</I></B> to be less mood swingy in addition to less immediately verbal. i think communicating about communicating is a wonderful idea. that's really what needs to be done, in both our cases, i feel, if long-term happiness is to come for our respective relationships. *big hugs* :) i can very much relate to this one. . . elias and i have been having trouble communicating recently as well, in large part due to the way we respectively attempt to communicate. eerily similar to you and boy toy, i can get worked up at the drop of a hat, my emotions falling fluidly from my sleeve, where i keep my heart when we’re talking, because i too verbalize rather than internalize many of my thoughts. . . and he I>can be the same but he tends to be less mood swingy in addition to less immediately verbal.

i think communicating about communicating is a wonderful idea. that’s really what needs to be done, in both our cases, i feel, if long-term happiness is to come for our respective relationships.

*big hugs* :)

]]> By: Elle http://www.kinkunleashed.com/2009/06/30/the-problem-with-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-4133 Elle Wed, 01 Jul 2009 21:37:27 +0000 http://www.kinkunleashed.com/?p=364#comment-4133 Hah :P Any special requests? Hah :P Any special requests?

]]> By: Tom Allen http://www.kinkunleashed.com/2009/06/30/the-problem-with-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-4131 Tom Allen Wed, 01 Jul 2009 13:36:50 +0000 http://www.kinkunleashed.com/?p=364#comment-4131 You're welcome. You can thank me by posting more of your delicious HNTs. :-) You’re welcome. You can thank me by posting more of your delicious HNTs.
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