We were hanging out with a couple of girlfriends; they had stopped by for a few drinks on their way to the club. While A was getting ready in the washroom, Boy Toy, M2 and I chatted in the kitchen. In the course of our idle talk, M2 mentioned she might come out with us the next day, without her boyfriend M.

We encouraged her. “Yes, come, you’ll have fun with us, you’ll see! Who needs M!?” We were mock-serious, of course. Oh, we wanted her to come along, true, but we’ve got nothing against her boyfriend, who’s a good friend of mine. Just a little harmless teasing. But she answered “It COULD be good, being able to have fun and not constantly watch out after him to make sure he isn’t doing anything with other girls…”

M and M2 are supposedly an open couple. At least, that’s what M tells me, that his girlfriend is OK with that kind of stuff. I’m really not aware of any more details than that and frankly, I don’t want to know. It’s their business. And I would have nothing against it, except for this feeling that maybe M2 isn’t as happy as she tells her boyfriend about sharing him. Her comment that night only confirms my feeling. It’s still none of my business, but it saddens me a little.

So I told her: “You know, there’s a way you wouldn’t ever worry about such things…” I saw Boy Toy blush across the table.

Her interest now piqued, I found myself unable to utter the words. Despite knowing that my friends enjoy kink, suggesting they use a chastity device pretty much amounts to telling them Boy Toy and I are into it ourselves. I looked at Boy Toy and said “Why don’t you tell her?” He turned towards her, said “Hey, I was surprised seeing you without M the other day!” I laughed at his abrupt change of subject and left him to fumble his way out of it. But the feeling stayed with me after: I wished I had told her.

The next day, M2 came along with her boyfriend. Apparently he had changed his mind about going out. No matter, every time I looked at M2, I felt the urge to tell her. I felt sure she would really, really enjoy chastity play. So I hung around her, trying to gather the guts to bring it up.

At one point during the evening, I was sitting next to M2 who was talking with her boyfriend when our friend C walked by. He’s brought up chastity cages before, with Boy Toy and I trying to keep a straight face. 

“Psssst! Come here!” I told him. “I need help! I want to tell M2 about chastity devices… I think she’d enjoy them!” C agreed with me: “She says she wishes M was more submissive”, he revealed. “Let’s call her over.” And he did.

Now there was no way out, I had to tell her. If I didn’t, C would anyway. So I jumped in: “I wanted to tell you about chastity cages… I think you’d enjoy that kind of play.” To my surprise, she answered something like “Yeah, I know. M mentioned such things and would like us to try.” Ah, so she already knew about the things… That made it easier. Still embarrassing, but easier. 

We talked about it a bit more and I told her she definitely should surf around and read blogs about it to see just how hot chastity is. I’m convinced she’d love it, and I strongly encouraged her to give it a shot. It would totally bring out the sub in M, who is something of a switch though his girlfriend doesn’t want to bottom. I told M2 how she’d never worry if M was under lock… She said “So when I work night shifts, I could simply lock him up until I’m back?” That’s right, you got it. And as a bonus, he’ll want to serve and please you.

When we were done with our little conversation, I turned towards C and told him “The seed is planted.” And then, as an afterthought: “By the way, if I know so much about chastity devices, it’s from reading about them online.” I’m sure he believed me.

Today, when I got back home, I emailed M2 the link to the CB6000. My work was done. I’ve given her information and a little nudge of encouragement, the rest is up to her. We’ll see what she does with it… That is, if she ever tells me. It’s not an easy thing to share.