I felt hot that night. An appropriate state of mind for my second fetish event... This time it was a private party. Our friends insisted Boy Toy and I go but we didn't really feel up for it. I'm a little uneasy about such events. Play, for me, is a private thing. It's sex. I wasn't sure what I would see there. But a few hours before the party, I asked Boy Toy if he felt like going. I had decided that if he did want to go, then maybe it'd be fun to try. I told him, though, that he'd have to be my slave boy and stay by my side. He was wearing the CB6000. I joked that he was dressed for the occasion. He was uncomfortable in it with the pants I wanted him to wear, though, so I let him out. I'm just that nice. A friend of ours joined us at Boy Toy's and the three of us walked to the party. When we walked in, we were greeted by a slave who took our coats for us. Two more of our friends showed up right behind us. They were the ones who tried to convince us to go and we hadn't told them we had changed our minds, so they were quite surprised to see us there. There were two rooms at this party. A playroom and a main room where people just chatted, sipped a drink and listened to music. I walked into the main room with my friends and was introduced to a few people. I was standing with my friend A when a guy dressed as a girl approached me and introduced himself (herself?). He called himself by a girl's name and preceded it with the word "slave". As if I would introduce myself saying: "I am slave Elle". Let's call him Slave Girl. He asked me if I was dominant and I said yes. By then, Boy Toy had gone outside with a friend to smoke. So I grabbed A's hand and said she was my sub. Slave Girl asked me several questions. Had I been her Mistress for a long time? "No, it's a recent thing", I told him. I made things up as I went along, until Slave Girl asked me if I also played with male submissives. And said he/she would like to play with me. I replied that I did in fact have a male slave already, that he was outside smoking... Slave Girl insisted, so much so that I sent another friend to fetch Boy Toy. A little later, I was still holding A's hand and a girl approached us. She knew A already, had met her at a previous party. She looked me up and down and told A she really liked what we had going on. "I like this better than your last companion", she said. She was referring to A's boyfriend! Apparently, I'm hotter ;) Someone produced a leash, which ended up being attached to A's neck and I held her leash for the rest of the night. We figured this would reduce the amount of playing propositions we'd receive... But I think it just attracted more looks. Boy Toy told me later that me holding A's leash was the most erotic thing he saw all night. And that's saying a lot since there was bare-bum spankings going on in the other room, as well as foot worship. But, as he explained, in our case it left a lot to the imagination. What was our relationship like? What do we do when we play? It was strange, being A's "Mistress". I kinda liked it, I felt sexy and comfortable doing it. There is nothing sexual between us, mind you. But somehow, I felt responsible for her, just as a dom is responsible for their sub. I kept asking if she was ok with things and I became quite protective. I kissed her every once in a while. A peck on the cheek or on the lips. Eventually, her boyfriend arrived. He walked into the place and saw us across the room, me holding his girlfriend on a leash. I like to think it turned him on... We stayed at the party for a while, then walked to our usual club. All in all, it was a fun, sexy evening. Boy Toy didn't even have to stay by my side all the time: A and I were quite a success. It strikes me as funny since this wasn't planned and she isn't anything near my slave. It would have been more appropriate, and nearer to the truth, if I had held Boy Toy on a leash but for some reason, it was far easier for me to do it with A. Probably because we were playacting. With Boy Toy, it would have been real. And although I do dominate him, I just don't think pulling him around on a leash is part of our dynamic. It hasn't been so far, anyway. The only hitch in the evening was Slave Girl. I tried to remain respectful. It was a kinky party - if there was ever a place where a guy can dress as a girl and call himself a slave, this was it. Yet... This wasn't my kink and so it did seem a little weird to me. The whole "I'm a slave" attitude, too, and the invitation to play. Let's not forget that before Boy Toy, I wasn't into kink. I've started down that road with him and have only done it with him. It's very private for me... And we don't usually go to fetish nights either. I had read enough on the Internet (roo-roo for example, has a lot of smart, no-nonsense opinions on BDSM) and talked enough about it with Boy Toy to know that such subby, grovelling attitude existed. I just wasn't sure how to react to it. Don't get me wrong, it wasn't that bad and he didn't push (well, only a little). It was just a little off-putting. I guess at a kinky party, I should expect invitations to play, though. He couldn't have known that I just wouldn't play with strangers. And that I only do kink/sex with Boy Toy. At least he was respectful and asked if I play with male subs before proposing play. After all, I could have been into females only. Or I could have been a sub! We talked about it afterward, Boy Toy and I. He's been to a LOT of fetish events in his time, and he told me how he hates that submissive/grovelling attitude where the guy jumps on the first pretty female that walks in, calls her "Mistress" and asks if he can worship her feet. Unfortunately, it seems like the fetish scene teems with such individuals and the only way to avoid it is to filter them out. Or have a tall and strong Boy Toy to "protect" me :) But yeah, I think I would repeat the experience, it was quite fun. Maybe our friends will manage to drag us there more often.