Last week, I wrote of my sometimes hesitation to put Boy Toy in a chastity device because of underlying issues. I tend to over-think and over-worry and in this case, I was afraid of the occasional resentment I feel when Boy Toy is really busy, afraid that I’d be using the CB6000 as some sort of misplaced punishment. But Web made a comment that struck me:

“It may be that his inattention is his way of saying pay attention to me, by showing me you are in control, or you want to control me.”

Ah. Well, we HAD been stuck in something of a rut. Both pretty stressed, Boy Toy especially busy. And me, trying to give him all the space I could despite needing his comfort, feeling sometimes neglected and therefore, not sexy/kinky at all. Maybe if I quit thinking so hard about it and just tried…

So last Thursday, I sent him this email:

I want you to wear the CB while I’m gone. It’d be perfect if you put it on tonight at 6, when I’m due to take the train. Use one of the little plastic lock thingies (safer, since I’ll be far away with the key) and text me the little number on it. I like knowing you’re wearing it while I’m gone, I like the subby feelings it causes in you. Read the rest of this entry »

I’m a busy gal these days and we simply couldn’t get around to taking new HNT pictures this week. So, I decided I’d use some of the leftovers from last week…

Happy HNT!

Want to join in the HNT sexy fun? Check out the guidelines at Osbasso’s place!