There has been some talk on the bloggosphere about New Year resolutions. Who makes them, who keeps them, and why? I haven’t really taken part of those conversations, because I didn’t make any resolutions, and I didn’t really reflect on why I did or didn’t make them. I just didn’t. I guess I’m with all those folk that say, if we have something to “work” on, why wait until New Year’s day to work on it? Sounds flaky.

I did read something about making positive resolutions, such as having sex every day, rather than something negative like eating less junk food. I liked that. So if I were to make any resolutions, they would be along the positive line. Preferably kinky.

But I’m not making any resolutions. I sort of explained why in a previous post when I said:

“Kink… I guess you could say it’s my New Year resolution. But it doesn’t really matter whether I make it a resolution or not: with Boy Toy and I, it’s inevitable.”

We are always evolving, exploring. Finding new and exciting things to try. True to that, last week I bought myself my very first strap-on harness. I mentioned how sexy it looks on me… Now you get to see. Happy HNT!

Want to join in the HNT sexy fun? Check out the guidelines at Osbasso’s place! 

As you probably know, Boy Toy and I have an agreement concerning his smoking. You see, I hate cigarettes. They stink. They are bad for you. They are expensive. I just don’t see any good in them. I’m sure smokers would disagree, there must be something they get out of it, but the fact is, I’ve never been a smoker so I just don’t see it. Yuck is my final answer.

Naturally, I want Boy Toy to quit. It’s a hazard to his health, and to mine too since he smokes in my presence. But having never smoked, I realize that I have no idea how hard it is to stop. How strong the addiction is (and I hear it’s quite bad). So I refuse to fight this fight. He’s got to stop on his own terms.

Still, there’s this agreement we have. I figured this could work: we bring down the number of cigarettes he smokes, getting him closer to stopping and diminishing the impact on his lungs, and it’s all done using his submissive tendencies towards me. Kinky, yay! Read the rest of this entry »

Sometimes I think I’m too nice. Remember I told you I ordered a new sex toy? And that I didn’t want to say what it was because I wanted to surprise Boy Toy with it? Well my toy has arrived. And as soon as it did, I emailed Boy Toy:

Hey Boy Toy,

My new toy has arrived, and I’m pretty excited about it! I’ll need a nice, quiet evening with you so we can try it. Pick your date

Your Owner

His answer definitely made me smile:

I think I’m worried.

It is wise of him, to be worried. Because I ordered… Read the rest of this entry »

Kink… I guess you could say it’s my New Year resolution. But it doesn’t really matter whether I make it a resolution or not: with Boy Toy and I, it’s inevitable.

We started 2009 with a bang, an orgasm for him I mean. He hadn’t had one since the Sunday just before Christmas. I was away for a few days after that and I had instructed him not to cum unless allowed. I got back on Monday and saw him that night, when he cooked for me. After supper, I teased him a little, then sat on his face for some release. For me. I decided I wanted to keep him denied a little while longer.

I saw him some more Tuesday and last night, but sex just wasn’t on our agenda. This morning though… We were snuggling in bed and I reached down, started stroking him. Soon, I was sitting on him, pinned on his cock, and we were both cuming. A good beginning for 2009. 

I know, I know, that wasn’t so very kinky. But there’s more naughty stuff coming, I promise. Last Monday, Boy Toy went over his cigarette limit. By the time I got there, he had already had one too many and he was itching for another. He asked me if he could smoke one more that night, and one less the next day. But I had something else in mind… Read the rest of this entry »