Boy Toy likes to be tricked, caught. It’s part of his kink; feeling like I got him, that he has no choice but to suck it in and take whatever I inflict upon him, totally turns him on.

I must admit, I’ve never found it hard to “catch” him. He likes to put up a show of a fight, complain like the brat he is, but if I insist just a little, I have him.

For instance, there was the time he offered to be my slave for two weeks. I jumped on the opportunity, and before the end of the two weeks, I ordered him to say “From now on, if my owner orders me to put on the CB6000, I will do it.” And then: “From now on, I will let my owner tie me up whenever she wants.” Having said these things out loud, he is now bound to honour his word.

So I have a huge advantage over him. He’s screwed, really. And he knows it. That’s probably why he never argues whenever I suddenly decide on new rules, like taking control of his orgasms. Since last December, he hasn’t been allowed to cum unless given permission, and not once has he questioned this. Sometimes I wonder, how did I get to have this power over him?

I have another advantage in the fact that I’m tricky. I’m good with keys, I’m good at locking him up and hiding the key. I pretty much always have some keys hidden at his place or in my things. Boy Toy likes tricky, it gets him wet. And I like being tricky.

I remember this one time in particular. Boy Toy has this weird ball of a cuff, it’s these two interlocked metal rings that open and close into a sphere sort of thing, and you can lock it around someone’s wrists using a little padlock. Sorry, I couldn’t find a picture online. But anyway, one evening, we’re hanging out and for some reason, he takes the thing out. He tells me it’s a restraint and I ask him how it works. It was a simple thing, then, to get him to put it around his wrists, lock the thing up and tuck the key safely away in my pocket.

Of course, before unlocking him, I took full advantage of my Boy Toy.

This… fetish of his, to love getting caught so, I believe it comes from his childhood, at least in part. I’ve related in a previous post how when he was a kid, there were some childish games he would play with his sisters and cousins. These games involved getting caught by the others and when you were caught, you were made to do something humiliating, like stripping or being kept in a trunk. Humiliating and exciting. Hmmm, sound familiar? 

I have a feeling that this dynamic between he and I, the fact that it’s easy for me to trick him, makes him look up to me and feel submissive towards me. Which in turns makes it all the easier to get him to do what I want. As for me, I love the playfulness of it all, and as I’ve said a few times before, I totally feed off of his reactions.

It’s a win-win situation