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Not so kinky Holidays

Wow, I'm back... I'm still a bit dazed from long hours spent traveling and little sleep. Nothing kinky to report, either. After all, I was away with my family, without Boy Toy. And pretty much out of touch, so no opportunity to send naughty instructions. But I did leave him with a strict command not to cum while I was away  ;) Somehow, I ended up talking about masochism with my mother, on our way back from a supper at my aunt's. She knows nothing about my blog, of course, or of the nature of my sex life with Boy Toy. So I have to be careful what I say! I don't remember exactly how it came about... I think we were talking about religion and I was going on about how it tries to control people's life with senseless bullshit (my apologies to any reader with religious beliefs... to each their own). How most religions would have people be prudes, for no reason other than to control their lives. And my mother said something along the lines that people should do whatever they want... Then she said: "Still, I don't understand things like masochism. They can do it if they want but I just don't get it."  So I sat there and told her "Well, they like it. It turns them on." I left it at that. I couldn't let on that I know more on the subject! I don't like receiving pain myself, but I know people who do. I read people who do. I've been having an education on the subject for the last year and a half, now. And sometimes I spank Boy Toy. Yeah, I'm pretty sure my mom doesn't want to know that. That's about how kinky things got for the last week or so. Tonight, I'm having supper with Boy Toy and while I don't have any particular plan in mind, I did tell him to wait for me naked. I like him naked. I'm thinking that since the first half of my Holidays wasn't very kinky at all, perhaps I should remedy that. I received a bit of money for Christmas and I am seriously considering buying something from my  JT Stockroom Wishlist. Hmmmm....

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4 Responses

  1. Axe Says:

    Glad you’re having some post holiday fun!

    Being naked and waiting sounds like the best xmas gift ever.

  2. Tom Allen Says:

    Then she said: “Still, I don’t understand things like masochism. They can do it if they want but I just don’t get it.” So I sat there and told her “Well, they like it. It turns them on.”

    There is an excellent analogy in the book “When someone you love is kinky” – the authors talk about how some people love to play various active sports, or go rock climbing, or do other things in which your body gets pushed, pummeled, or punished somehow. Yet, nobody ever suggests that there’s something wrong with a middle-aged guy who gets tired and sore from playing on a local soccer or softball league.

    This past summer, none of my in-laws thought it was unusual that I came back from an hour’s bike ride all sweaty and exhilarated, or that I looked forward to exercising more the next day. And when I talk about how I’m hitting the weights three or four times a week, everybody applauds my perseverance.

    So why is it that we don’t “get” that some people have the same exhilaration and enjoy the feeling of soreness from a good BDSM scene?

  3. Elle Says:

    Axe: The best part about it is that after a year and a half, he still blushes at being naked when I am not :)

    Tom: Good one. It’s true, people are weird. I don’t even get why sex is still a taboo the way it is. Well, kinky sex, anyway. It should be applauded, just like your perseverance :D

  4. Vixen Says:

    Naked IS good!

    ;)

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