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Hypnosex?

Sorry for leaving you hanging with my last post. It wasn't an intentional cliffhanger. My first thought was to write about Friday night's sexual antics but then I realized I needed to explain the hypnosis thing first to set the stage. And it turned out to be a complete post, in and of itself. Besides, I was sleepy and my cold was making me feel a bit dizzy, so I decided to tell the rest later and go for a nap. So where was I? Ah, yes. I was about to tell you what went on Friday night. There was a lot of naughtiness involved, and not much hypnosis, to tell you the truth. But it did come into play a little, and I would like to think that it worked. Boy Toy certainly does, and he says he's scared. Anyway, on with the sex, I'll tell you a bit more about the hypnosis after. When I got home after work, Friday, I continued talking to Boy Toy on MSN. I told him I had a dilemma, I was wondering whether to take a bath here or shower at his place. He solved it for me when he said he had to shower too; a few minutes later I was on my way to his place. After a quick bite, we hit the shower. As you know, this is a favorite of mine, to be under the steamy hot water with Boy Toy. We hadn't had sex in two weeks and I know he hadn't masturbated since the beginning of the week. I think I forgot to mention it here but I've instructed him not to jerk off for 3 days before Owner Fridays. I want him to be fresh and attentive, when I finally see him. So predictably, we started fooling around. Kissing, fondling each other. After a while I turned my back to him so he could fuck me. He rubbed my clitoris mercilessly with his fingers while penetrating me and so I came almost right away. He, on the other hand, ended up having to stop. He had gone jogging the day before and his thighs just couldn't take it. When he stopped, I pressed my hand flat against his chest, pushed him away from me and started to rinse out my hair. When he reached for me and whimpered, I said: "What is it? What do you want?" Eyes downcast, he replied: "I wanted to come, but it'll be another time, I guess." You got it, Boy Toy. We got out of the shower and soon, he wanted a cigarette. This was just what I had been waiting for. I wanted to try the trigger words while he was naked and in a submissive position. You know, so I could easily see whether it affected him or not. He stripped, kneeled in front of me and started puffing on his cigarette. I waited a minute or so before I said: "You know, I was thinking I'd buy myself a new scarf. I was thinking red silk." Slight pause. "Why red silk?" "I don't know. Red silk is soft and sexy. Don't you think red silk is a good idea? I like it. Red silk." As I was saying this, I was paying close attention to him. I didn't see anything out of the ordinary, though. He finished his cigarette and asked if he could get dressed again. I said no, of course. He should know better than to ask me that, by now. He joined me on the couch and snuggled against me under the big, soft down blanket. After a few minutes, I thought I'd test the waters, see if he was more submissive than usual. "Give me a massage", I told him. I'm not normally very authoritative and usually, I would have asked, not told. His answer? A definitive "Ok", without hesitation. He went to get some baby oil while I stripped. Up until then, he had been naked and I was clothed. I like the imbalance, how it makes him feel vulnerable and subby. Now we were on equal grounds. He massaged me, rubbing the oil into my skin. When I was satisfied, I told him to make me come. He was still straddling my back. He immediately turned around, still straddling my back but facing the other way, towards my legs, and started working on my clitoris with his fingers. Once again, it didn't take me long... We snuggled together, naked. I reached down and started playing with his penis. I soon had him erect and pretty damn horny, so I made him lie on his back and it was now my turn to straddle him... He came quickly (we both always come quickly) and I must say, it was intense. After all the frolicking, we finally sat down and got to talk about the hypnosis session recording, which I had him listen to three times last week. I told him about how Lady Julia uses the phrase "good boy" many times throughout the recording. I also told him about the trigger words, red silk. He admitted that he had felt something when I said them. "It was as if the words meant something", he said. I don't know, though. Since the suggestion embedded in the recording is a general one, it's difficult to tell if anything is a hardproof that the hypnosis worked. Sure, the words got his attention when I said them. And he grudgingly admits to feeling submissive and kind of aroused after I uttered them. But hypnosis is a fetish/fantasm of his, and so of course he'll react to any attempt at it. It scares him yet turns him on. I did use the trigger words a couple more times throughout the weekend. Last night, after going out, we had drunken sex. We were both very horny but he was having a bit of a hard time because of the alcohol. I whispered "red silk" in his ear. I think he got hornier. I'm not sure. This morning, he didn't remember that I had said that. At any rate, in the end we gave up on sex. We were both a little too enebriated to come ;) This morning we were sitting on the couch, he naked and I dressed (it was a little too chilly for me) and I looked at him, smiled and said the words. He got all flustered, saying that he feels strange when I use the trigger. Hmmm, interesting! We then jumped in the shower and I reached for his penis and started caressing him, thinking I'd make him come that way. But it turned into full blown shower sex. This time, his legs held on... It was short, but oh, so intense! I still feel a throb between my legs just thinking about it. So there you have it. A very sexy weekend indeed. As for our conclusion concerning the hypnosis? I think Boy Toy is suggestible enough that hypnosis would/did work on him. He reported feeling strange when I called him a good boy and when I said red silk, before I even told him these words were meaningful. I asked him for his final verdict of my little experiment and he is convinced it worked. He is quite scared of it and of what I'll do with it. And that's what remains to be seen... One thing is for sure, I would love to learn to do it myself. 

Category: Experiences, First times, Kinky stuff, Owner Friday | 12 Comments »

12 Responses

  1. ladypandorah Says:

    New to your blog and I’ve just finished reading your last two posts. What a welcome read!

    I’ve sometimes wondered about hypnosis and its potential effects; might be something to have a little adventure into with my Mister.

    I think I’ll linger around for a while, that is, if you don’t mind!

    LadyP

  2. Elle Says:

    ladypandorah: Welcome! Yeah, we’ve had quite a bit of fun exploring this… and we’ve just started. So far, I can’t say for 100% that it worked, but the results are interesting enough that I want to look further into it. I’ll be sure to share my findings.

    And of course I don’t mind! I like visitors ;)

  3. MyKey Says:

    Dont worry babe, even if it was on purpose I like denial and being made to wait, heheh.

  4. Elle Says:

    lol! That’s exactly what I was doing, Mykey, denying you of the satisfaction of reading about my sexy weekend :P

  5. Mykey Says:

    cheeky minx. You just wait till I come across the pond! Lol

  6. Elle Says:

    Ohhh but don’t go through the trouble, I don’t really like getting spanked :P

  7. Lady Julia Says:

    I also told him about the trigger words, red silk. He admitted that he had felt something when I said them. “It was as if the words meant something”, he said.

    I don’t know, though. Since the suggestion embedded in the recording is a general one, it’s difficult to tell if anything is a hardproof that the hypnosis worked. Sure, the words got his attention when I said them. And he grudgingly admits to feeling submissive and kind of aroused after I uttered them. But hypnosis is a fetish/fantasm of his, and so of course he’ll react to any attempt at it. It scares him yet turns him on.

    I’m glad you’re having fun with all this. It is something that has really been fun for me. (smiles)

    It is true that he probably would have responded to the words “good boy” even without being hypnotized and it is difficult to tell if his response is greater after or not. My guess would be that the words “Red Silk” – especially when speaking of a scarf – are generally not something that would generate a response most people, so I would think you could gauge his response to that phrase to see how effectively he is responding to the suggestions he’s been given.

    Some people respond strongly after being hypnotized once, but most people respond better after having listened to a session several times. Sometimes when I’m training someone, I’ll have them listen every day for 3-4 days, maybe even a week depending on how well they do.

    As for learning hypnosis, no I don’t really explain on my site how to do it because while it isn’t super complicated, it’s a lot more involved than I could do on a website.

    Terrence Watts of Hypnosense ( http://hypnosense.com/ ) offers a free self-hypnosis course and also free hypnotherapy scripts. While this is different than therapy of course, the same principles for guiding the subject to a hypnotic place would apply.

    There is also a free home study course from a school out west somewhere. I can’t remember the name, but if you will contact me in a couple of days, I’ll see if I can get that info for you.

    Best of luck.

    Lady Julia

  8. Elle Says:

    Lady Julia: thanks for stopping by, and thanks for the words of advice!

    Yes, I’m sure Boy Toy would react to words such as “good boy” no matter what. It’s in his nature. But with the suggestions, I think it did trigger a little more…

    I did think making him listen to the recording more than once would help, thanks for confirming. I told him today I want him to keep on listening to it when he goes to bed!

    And finally, I think I will look into learning it a bit myself. It’s a lot of work, I imagine. But it sounds like fun. One of the first things I might try is help Boy Toy quit smoking. If that works well, we could move on to kinkier things…

    Thanks again. It’s very generous of you to make those MP3s available to other kinky people out there!

  9. Robert Says:

    Hi Elle,
    I’m still very much enjoying your blog. I just thought to mention the “Good Boy” phrase is a trigger Lady Julia created in Her “Good Boy” MP3, which I think may partially explain the repeated use elsewhere in later MP3s.
    I think the goal of helping Boy Toy to quit smoking is an awesome idea. I think it’s amazing what pushing the right kink buttons with a little hypnosis can do. BTW: I’ve now lost 38lbs since summer on Lady Julia’s diet and exercise plan for me and it’s turning into a life changing experience.

  10. Lady Julia Says:

    Elle,

    I have a MP3 that might work well for him with regard to quitting smoking. If you’d like to write to me at the above email address, I can send the link. I haven’t listened to it since I recorded it, so it might be that it wouldn’t be appropriate for a man with a Mistress, thus I recommend you listening to it first.

    In that MP3, I ask them to surrender to me unhealthy habits and pick up healthy habits. I try to walk the fine line of having someone submit enough to do this but not so much that they become attached to me personally. If the words on the MP3 are something that you think would help, I’m willing to discuss sharing the script with you if you think that would be better than him listening to me saying the words.

    Best of luck :)
    Lady Julia

  11. Elle Says:

    Oh, yes, I’d like to try that! I’ll listen to it first, just out of principle, meaning I wouldn’t have him listen to some hypnotic suggestions if I didn’t know the contents ;)

    It’d be great if he could stop smoking, although I would miss watching him smoke while kneeling naked in front of me…

  12. Elle Says:

    Robert: Wow, that’s awesome, 38 pounds eh? If you can quit smoking, or lose weight, through something kinky… hell, I’m all for it ;)

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