Second Owner Friday
• October 16th, 2008 • by Elle
Tomorrow night is my second Owner Friday. I haven't made any plans yet, so I'm open to suggestions... Anyone? :D
On another note, there really is a big difference in Boy Toy when I control his orgasms, and when I don't. I think I like it better when I do. Still, I want to leave him a bit of a break. But I'm thinking more and more that I'll definitely go back to the denial/control. In the meantime, I have lots of reading and listening to do, thanks to maymay!
And on THAT note, I'm off to bed.
Category: Ramblings | 
4 Comments »
October 17th, 2008 at 2:12 pm
“I haven’t made any plans yet, so I’m open to suggestions… Anyone?”
You could both get naked, cover yourselves in tapioca, and run through the streets shouting, “Hootie and the Blowfish ate my dog!”
October 17th, 2008 at 5:10 pm
roo-roo: I like your thinking. I’m keeping that idea as backup plan.
October 19th, 2008 at 9:10 am
Like hime better in denial? How positively Domme of you
Actually, I envy Boy Toy. NW will tell you that my current denial does little but keep my interest a little higher. Even when she is topping, it requires her teasing, frequently, to affect a change in my behavior. Since my body doesn’t seem to let me be teased more than a week, without just deciding to cum, the effects are short term.
October 19th, 2008 at 11:48 am
GoodHubby: It’s not out of dominance on my part that I like it better, it’s because I like the attention I get. I like that he is more present, listens to me better, that he actually makes more effort to understand where I’m coming from when we talk, rather than get frustrated and argue. Of course, I also like the fact that he drips pre-cum almost constantly, when in denial.
When I’ve ordered him not to cum, it takes about 2-3 days at most before his whole attitude changes. And it changes a LOT. He’ll argue that it doesn’t, but that’s just because either he doesn’t want to admit it for fear that I always keep him denied, or because he’s too close to the subject to see the effects properly. When I tested this recently, I would let him cum once or twice a week and the effects were still there. Sure, once he’d cum, there would be a short period where he’d be back to his old bratty self, but it normally didn’t last very long, especially with the dreams he was having!