These last few weeks, denying Boy Toy of orgasms, I've seen just how submissive he can be. I am learning all his switches and it seems to come to me instinctively, naturally. Simply chatting with him about it all and asking him what makes him submissive practically brings him into subspace, where he is ready to offer me all of his orgasms until Christmas or promise to be with me forever. And he dreams about it after. Last week, he went over his cigarette limit and I decided that as punishment, for the next week he would smoke all of his cigarettes naked, kneeling with legs spread, whether I'm there or not. As you can well imagine, this isn't helping him at all. If we're chatting, when he comes back from his cigarette I ask him if he's wet, which makes him blush... But one thing you should know about Boy Toy is that he is an alpha male. Confident. Independent in every part of his life, king of his domain. Except when it comes to me; he is at my feet. Of course, this is all a little literal. He defers to me, and if I choose to talk to him in an authoritative manner, if I’m convincing enough, I can make him do pretty much whatever I like. But we aren’t like that 24 hours a day… We're in a relationship: we communicate, we share, we talk. There is the mundane stuff, too. Like going grocery shopping. Cooking a meal together. Working, reading, hanging out with friends, going out… Still, when it comes right down to it, he rules his life, and I rule him. But this funny thing happened, the other night. We went out dancing and Boy Toy got all dominant on me. No jealousy, mind you. He enjoys watching me flirt with other guys (I’d argue it’s not really flirting, but I’m sure he’d beg to differ, so I won't bother denying... I'll just say it's not something I do conciously). He feels this probably makes me feel sexy and good about myself, so he likes it. No, Boy Toy's dominance came out differently. He was sort of showing I was his, I think. We would be dancing and he would pull me to him. Position me where he wanted me, grab me, touch me, kiss me. I said nothing, just went with it, enjoying this fascinating change in behavior. When we got back home he decided to eat something and I went straight to bed, I was tired and a little tipsy. So tired in fact that I fell asleep immediately but I woke up when Boy Toy got into bed and decided to finger me. I was laying with my back to him, so he pulled me to him, took one of my legs and put it behind him so as to spread my legs really wide. Not so submissive, was he? I stopped him, though. I was just too tired and not aroused, I wanted to sleep. It was very strange to see him act this way, given how submissive he's been all of last week. I bet it had to do with the fact that I jerked him off and made him cum, earlier in the day Saturday. This was his first time in a week. Friday night, there was some naughty activities, but they ended with me having 2 or 3 orgasms, and him, none. So, apparently giving my Boy Toy an orgasm turns him into this brat of an alpha male. But it doesn't matter, sooner rather than later, he comes running back to his Owner, tail between the legs.