Ok, yesterday I got sidetracked a little with some geeky web stuff, so now I owe you something sexy. Perhaps you’ve been wondering how Boy Toy reacted to the email I sent him Sunday, regarding my control of his orgasms?

Surprisingly, he went with it without a fight. Almost like it was something inevitable, and let’s just get on with it. He did ask for a favour in exchange, which I’ve granted. You see, we have a couple of rules for whenever I am staying over. Not many, really. You already know about our smoking arrangements. But there are two other things he must do when I sleep over: in the morning, he must stay naked until I get up, and when I do get up, he must make my coffee. He has a bit of a problem with the first of these two, because it prevents him from getting anything done until I get up and, well, Boy Toy is one of these people that must get things done. So when I told him he cannot have an orgasm unless I tell him he can, and that we’d “start” with one week, his response was “Ouch! One week eh? OK, but in exchange for… Sunday mornings, can I get dressed to do things around the house?”

He isn’t asking for much, considering the power he’s given me over his sex. In fact, had he asked me before, I would have probably granted this favour without demanding anything in exchange. But as you know, I’m an opportunist, so I went with the “exchange” thing. 

So far, it doesn’t seem to be too hard on him. I’m working on it, though. I really want to play with this, experiment, feel the control. For this, I think he needs to be franctic with his need for release. I’ve been trying to help this along, sending him cute little notes:

Hey Boy Toy,
 
I was sitting in the bus, on my way back from work, and I was getting wet just thinking about how I love to do things to you, and how I love controlling your orgasms.
 
Miss ya  

This one seems to have worked, given his response:

When you say “controlling your orgasms” it stirs up kinky, submission and fear all in one word. :O

 So, there you have it. Looks like I’m on the right track… And in this, time is my best ally. I don’t think I’ll let Boy Toy cum, this weekend.