A Boy Toy… doesn’t dream anymore?
Well, I must apologize. A while back, I posted one of Boy Toy’s dreams, intending this to become a regular “feature” of sorts, on my blog. I guess Boy Toy got blog-fright or something, he hasn’t had a kinky dream since then. Or at least, he hasn’t told me about it. But since I made it into a rule and he has to tell me all his kinky dreams, I’m sure he wouldn’t forget to mention it.
I think Boy Toy’s mind is otherwise occupied, unfortunately. He has been busy and stressed, of late. Busy and stressed enough to stop dreaming his deliciously dirty dreams.
I could try getting his mind in the gutter, just before sleep, perhaps. Making him wary of what is owner intends to do might work. I could refer him to some bedtime reading, another kinky blog, for instance. A short BDMS/erotica story?
Any suggestions?
Category: Boy Toy Dreams, Ramblings | 
6 Comments »
September 2nd, 2008 at 9:48 pm
My Wife gave me the same assignment. I am to write out all of my kinky dreams and fantasies for her. Most of them I post on my blog as well. It’s a great idea for keeping me in the right mindset, and focused on her.
September 2nd, 2008 at 11:10 pm
And does your wife have methods to provoke these dreams? Normally Boy Toy has them all the time, but now it’s been a while… I’d like to get back in the game, so to speak.
September 2nd, 2008 at 11:28 pm
Three words: tease and denial (or two if you ignore the conjunction).
After five or six days of heavy teasing, pinching, whispered threats of merciless dominance in my ear while we’re in public, explicit text messages, serving her needs sexually and otherwise, then my own kinky, devious psychology comes alive with increasing intensity, taking over my dreams and inspiring me to imagine all the ways she can dominate, humiliate, hurt and break me down.
It’s all inside. She just needs to tease it out. And occasionally that takes a little longer. Sometimes, she teases me until I start sharing and writing new fantasies to inspire her cruel new games. Denying me any release for as long as it takes to make sure I give her what she wants.
I don’t know if that will help you. Sounds like you already do some of that with YOUR toy.
September 2nd, 2008 at 11:36 pm
Well, yes, but certainly not to that extent. And part of it is because we don’t live together. I don’t have as many occasions to tease and deny…
Also, he’s going through a busy/stressed phase right now, so we don’t talk online as much. That’s probably the real reason. I don’t talk to him just before bed, of late. Maybe some new rules are in order… I’ll think on it.
But then again, since he’s pretty stressed and works so much, I’m hesitant to add to that. I guess I’m learning that being a good owner also means stepping back and being patient, at times
September 3rd, 2008 at 10:39 pm
New rules would be great. Something for him to do every night bfore bed that benefits you. Maybe make him do pushups or something.
No clue.
I just discovered your blog. Can’t wait to read more about your lucky boytoy.
September 3rd, 2008 at 10:56 pm
Thanks for stopping by, axe!
A new rule just before bed is a great idea. Hmmm and maybe situps. He keeps forgetting to do them, he says.
But it would be more effective if it was something that embarrasses him a little. I was thinking of making him smoke his first cigarette of the day kneeling, with legs spread. Just an idea I had.
But something just before bed would work better, really. Hmmmm…