Playtime
August 30th, 2008 by Elle
Boy Toy and I have been so busy lately, there simply hasn’t been any time for play. And maybe I’m wrong, but I have this notion that for him to be a happy Boy Toy, there has to be a minimum of it. I have noticed regular play has a positive effect on our relationship, it brings us closer together, creates this sense of intimacy, like we’re two naughty co-conspirators. Besides, I just enjoy playing with him. I love seeing how what I’m doing affects him.
As I said earlier this week, it was time we play. I had been craving it for a while.
At first, I was torn between two ideas. I had read something about food fetishism, and actually wrote a little something on it for the F-mag. I also read Blacksilk’s description of a certain position. I really wanted to have Boy Toy try this position, but the food thing was alluring, too, we had never done anything like it. We never did anything naughty in his kitchen, either, except a photo session once. We’ve joked about having sex on the countertop, but never did it.
In the end, as smarmoofus suggested in a comment, I decided to do both: start with the kitchen, and end with the bondage position.
So Boy Toy was to be my kitchen-bitch. I liked that. I figured we could try our hand, or tongue, at a little food play in the kitchen. The obvious choice, if you put aside things to penetrate various body cavities (that could be for another time), is whipped cream. I knew he’s not crazy about it, and I had something in mind, anyway. I asked one of my girlfriends what she would like to have licked off of her, and she suggested honey. Perfect!
I ordered Boy Toy to wait for me naked. I arrived at his place and had him prepare us a drink. It was so hot at his place, I used this as an excuse to strip to my sexy black bra and undies. I sat on a high chair at the island countertop while he was preparing the drinks, and when he was done, I told him that while he was my kitchen-bitch, he would wear the cock ring. He hesitated but when I firmly said "Now!", he quickly got it out and put it on.
When my kitchen-bitch was properly attired, I said “You know, we’ve never tried your kitchen”, looking pointedly at the bottle of honey I had left on the counter. He didn’t need any more prodding than that: he got me a big towel, laid it on the countertop and I promptly got rid of my underwear and laid down on it.
Boy Toy attacked my honey-idea with much enthusiasm. He used a little stir-stick and started putting honey all over me, drawing a line from between my breasts to my Venus mound, then circling the nipples, making little lines on the breasts and then on my thighs, close to my pussy. I couldn’t help but laugh at how much honey he was spreading all over my body, since I had told him that if he didn’t do a good clean up job, there’d be a spanking. Which was exactly what I wanted to do, and the reason for opting for yummy, sticky honey.
He started licking me with gusto, and at first was going pretty fast as some of the honey was dripping off me. That felt a little funny… but then he got to the nipples and I felt my pussy throb. When he got to the thighs… I couldn’t help but giggle and gasp. Every once in a while he’d give my pussy a teasingly quick lick, then go back to his cleaning job. Honey, it turns out, is quite hard to lick clean. Perfect!
Once he thought his cleanup good enough, he directed his attention between my legs even though there was no honey there, at least not the type made by bees. Between his talent with his tongue and my arousal from the cleanup session, it didn’t take me long to buckle and moan.
But I wasn’t done. I brushed my fingers lightly over the areas that had been sugared up, and sure enough, they were still sticky. I announced that I would have to spank him, and he protested, saying it was not possible to lick it any cleaner than this. I didn’t care.
I told him he would have to assume the “spanking position”. This was new, so I had to guide him through. I ordered him to kneel on the ottoman (it is a backless couch, basically, and can serve as footstool; Boy Toy’s is almost as big as the couch itself). I had him spread his legs, and told him to bend forward until his face was lying on the ottoman. I then had him rest his arms between his legs… Quite the exposed position.
Initially, I was thinking of binding him in this position, but I decided to play the psychological part and simply ordered him not to move. I believe this to make him feel more submissive, the only thing restraining him being his need to submit to my will. There is also the added advantage that if he does move, I can punish him some more. Evil, evil me.
Once he had assumed the position, I fetched a butt plug and wooden paddle from the toy box and the lube from the bathroom. I got back to my waiting Boy Toy, and lubed the plug generously. As I started to insert it, Boy Toy jumped and exclaimed “I thought I was getting a spanking!” Now, this is hard, when he protests, because I’m never sure when I should stop or ignore his complaints and do what I want. Still, I pushed through. Very slowly, while playing with his cock and balls and checking constantly with him for fear of hurting him, but in the end, it was in.
It was time for the paddle. I gave him a few good smacks on his butt cheeks, sometimes while playing with his cock. Then I abandoned the paddle and continued jerking him off. After just a few strokes, I noticed him breathing really hard so I let go and smacked him with the paddle some more, only to go back to jerking him off. This time, I was ready to bring him over the edge, which did not take long. Boy Toy gets oh so worked up when his owner uses him.
Feeling a little bad for forcing the butt plug on him, I later asked him if I had punished him unjustly. He blushed and mumbled that no, I hadn't been unfair. That's a good Boy Toy.
Category: Kinky stuff, Punishment, Toys |
7 Comments »



August 30th, 2008 at 11:31 pm
Wow. I never thought I’d get a mention in a post like this. *snicker* But, yay! (I’m such an attention-whore.)
You two have what sounds like a really fun relationship. In place of honey, next time you should reward him with his choice of flavors of SqueezePop “squeeze & lick lollipop”. It’s hard to find, but well worth the search for the non-honey-lovers among us.
-smarmoofus
August 31st, 2008 at 1:47 am
Haha. I love the mumbling part. The ‘I love it but don’t want to admit to it’ mumble. Too many admissions and your power grows!
That was hot!
Don’t feel bad, I am sure you can gauge if he is enjoying it, and he always has his safe word.
M
August 31st, 2008 at 2:03 am
I forgot to say, you are right about the minimum. There needs to be a certain amount of play to keep things healthy. Partly to keep the submission up and maybe even growing, and partly because many kinky people need that in their relationship the way most need love and intimacy. it certainly does increase intimacy and brings you closer together if you are both into it. It surprises me how in many relationships, vanilla included, people forget about the need for sex and don’t talk about it being lacking, until it destroys the very heart of the relationship.
I love the way you describe having a naughty secret between you. I often wonder what people on the street would think when I’m wearing the chastity belt. The secret adds fun to the day, a fizz to your inner thoughts.
M
August 31st, 2008 at 3:40 am
Smarmoofus: the Squeeze & lick lollipop sounds fun, too! This time though, I wanted to keep him guessing, it’s part of the excitement. I only told him he was to be my kitchen-bitch
Next time, maybe I’ll have him choose, it can be fun too. And yes, if you’re gonna comment on my blog, I might just mention it later so you just watch out LOL (hope you don’t mind!)
Mykey: you got it exactly right, he said it like he didn’t want to admit it, but at the same time, he had to, no? In fact, I was talking to him on the phone today and told him I posted on here about the whole thing. I told him that he was lucky in a way, because reading me means he gets a glimpse inside my head, at my way of seeing this thing we did together. I told him I wished he would write about it, so I could get the same glimpse, and he said “wouldn’t that be making it too easy for you, giving you too much advantage, too much information?” HAH! I guess this, too, was a way of saying he liked it
Oh, and side note here, we don’t have a safe word. Never thought we needed one… I’m not very hardcore, and he could simply say stop or something, it would certainly get my attention and I’d make sure and check with him what’s up.
And yes, I agree, sex is a super important part of a relationship, whether vanilla or not. If we don’t have sex as often, for a while, I get all worried that something’s wrong! lol
Hmmmmm secrets…
August 31st, 2008 at 2:29 pm
I recommend the safe word, if for no other reason than when he does say “stop”, you don’t have to interrupt the moment to see if he really means it. Even if he says “no, I don’t mean it, keep going,” then some of the power exchange is spoiled. Safe words make for better play.
Not that I know what I’m talking about. *innocent*
I don’t mind the mention, no. I was just amused to find it. Over on my blog, I fretted because a couple of people said “shit” in comments this week. It’s a vanilla world over there.
September 1st, 2008 at 11:55 am
Sounds like a wonderful evening. Honey is now on today’s shopping list.
September 1st, 2008 at 2:27 pm
smarmoofus: thanks for the warning, if I comment on your blog I’ll be sure to watch my language
OdysseusBound: yes, it was a good afternoon. I really recommend the honey, especially if the person on the licking end doesn’t like whipped cream. Maple syrup would have done the job, too. Hmmmmm I was also thinking of buying a piece of good chocolate and melting it. Hmmmm