We were entertaining yesterday, having a few drinks with friends before going out dancing, and my friend M’s new girlfriend and I got to talking. I made an offhand remark about the time Boy Toy and I went to a fetish club (her and M go to such places, but it’s all new to her) and she seized the opportunity to ask me about my relationship. “M told me a little about you guys, she said, and I’m curious. Who’s dominant and who’s submissive? Who gives the pain?”

I was caught a little off guard by her question. “What do you think?” I asked her. She replied: “I think you’re the dominant one”. Read the rest of this entry »