I kept him locked so he couldn’t play. I took advantage of his condition, and sent him some instruction. “Make me a list, I ordered my guy, of 5 punishments I could apply.” So eager was he to win his freedom, he listed 10 and gave extra wisdom.

List of 10 Punishments my owner could apply…

- in chain harness for whole weekend or 48 hours… and if sub has to remove for say going out or shower or what ever, every hour off is 2 hours more another time… or other punishment like crop or cane or chastity or hard punishment so sub knows the excuse for removal is very expensive.

- tied naked to saw horse and paddled or cropped, don’t know how many times for what kind of punishment though…. guess owner defines those kind of rules. Additional option to that is you leave them there for an hour after… or instil discomfort, like leave them with butt plug so sub can think about it knowing they are… fucked or penetrated for your viewing pleasure.  Or also tell them to leave the spanking horse, or what ever, there for 1 week, like in plain sight, as reminder (kind of conditioning as the sub sees it and knows readily available to owner and be careful not to overstep bounds).

- hand and ankle cuffs for a day, another day if during that time sub doesn’t immediately bend over and touch their ankles when you hold up the crop or something to spank.

- establish harder rules for a while, like… sub has to kneel in an exposing and honouring way as soon as you say something, or strip and kiss both your feet, maybe stay there till you say ok. Fun part would be ordering them at a later time, not in punishment, to see if it stuck or conditioned them.

- bound spread out or bent over and anything goes, if sub calls out Yellow (safe word) it’s no orgasm for 1 week every time they say it. Red is 4 weeks.

- take away the right to say Red (safe-word) for 1 or 3 months, sub can only say yellow… could go with above one.

- make them feel low, like pet or animal, as not fit to be sub. Could have them crawl on all fours, maybe with leash or tail, or both or leash on balls or all? Could be also objectification, like on display or maybe written on with a marker or when they stand or kneel they have to spread their legs 45 degrees – feeling exposed, vulnerable to acknowledge they are owned.

- make them serve you and your friends when have visitors. Or put on locked ball cuff and/or collar while serving friends, if service was unsatisfactory, friend complained, then a worse punishment could follow. 

- painful thingies: clothespins or candle wax (could be applied after spanking), ball gag, fuck mouth then ass with strap-on while tightly tied down, shocking things like collar or wands (probably more useful while training so failure gives them an instant shock), nipple clamps, harness with dildo, 

- humiliation – like bound spread on all fours while you watch a movie and spank or insert butt plug, maybe eyes also covered so that sub can’t watch and is only there for punishment. Or bound sort of same way in separate room while you invite friends over so he fears the edge of being exposed. Or tied in a way, like standing with legs apart and butt out and as you spank you can judge and enjoy watching them swing their butt trying to shake the pain out, like enjoy the show.

- take away a pleasure like orgasm denial, foods, drinks, sporting, tv…

- a mix of any of the above, like one followed or done with another (bonus one).

Other notes of interest…

- make sure the rules are clear, like what constitutes as serious or soft punishment. Also be clear as to what is punishment (spanking) and what is standard protocol, what you always expect (stay naked in the mornings till I say you can get dressed). For example if you like your sub to kneel at your feet, don’t use kneeling as a punishment unless you alter it, like maybe with butt plug. Also rules can be anything you want for fun, worshiping, or serious behaviour you never want them to do. The owner might establish certain rules at certain times. Ex. when in the house or locked in a collar and when in public.

- regarding the above, the owner is always allowed to experiment, practice or evaluate any of the punishments in advance for play or amusement or learning telling the sub “I want to try something for my amusement” or “I have a little test for you”.

- when you put the sub in a circumstance (punishment or rule), for example strip or wear leather cuffs, make it absolutely clear to the sub that only you will give permission to remove or dress if that’s what you want. Don’t punish because they were confused as to unclear rules. For example: “you may get dressed now”. Also taking away the right to ask can enforce your control.

- as a break to you and sometimes the sub, drop all rules or some, but remind the sub that this is reward, reminder could be something locked on, or some kind of jewellery that reminds the sub that they are allowed certain things at the present time.

- prolonged punishments are good for also enforcing ownership, making the sub understand that they are your property, such as asking them often who owns them during, or questions that impose a mental change on their part.

- when you don’t have the time or aren’t ready to perform the punishment, you can simply lock the slave into something (less inconspicuous if term will include public or work) so mentally they know it’s coming and can’t run or hide. For example wrist ankle cuffs so they know would be easy to be bound at any time and they realize they are in trouble. This technique can also be used in cases where your not sure if the sub is ready to be punished in the way you want, for example a collar will only come off after punishment, so “let me know when your ready”.

- you can make it more interesting for yourself by having the sub pick cards, so that say spades is a wet birch stick, hearts is a crop, diamonds is a soft whip or hair brush…

- using safe-words when just playing you can have your fun pushing the sub into what you think might be extreme or instils fear in them, then you can use that condition as new punishment and let them know they won’t have safe-word if punished in that circumstance.

- when defining rules you should make sure that the sub knows you are serious about them. For example put the sub in a condition of disadvantage, like hands cuffed, naked, locked up, kneeling… and really use dialog that instils your ownership, like never say “you should” or “maybe” but rather “I require” and “you must”.

- manipulation, outwitting and tricking so the sub realizes you always win are great means for establishing who rules and being taken seriously. For example if the sub breaks a rule pretend you aren’t disappointed. Then later, ask them to wear cuffs, then lock something else on etc… until you know they can’t run. Then talk to them about what rule they broke and as they realize they are fucked since they are bound or locked into something that can’t be removed. Or hold their balls and have them put on hand cuffs. This shows the sub that you ultimately win every time and the sub will know that any rule broken is always punishable and they are at disadvantage.

- probably the most important, the rules and punishments defined are entirely the owners, for their fun, comfort and enjoyment. The sub should know that they can negotiate at a cost, but ultimately they are yours to define, design, and refine and have fun experimenting with. Since you own them and the rules, everything goes your way when you say! The sub has their safe words, defined hard limits, it’s their responsibility to use them, you are never at fault if you made them agree to rules and followed safe word practices.