There’s a lot of talk on the world wide web about male chastity. Half the blogs I read talk about it... It's like everyone and their neighbor is doing it, nowadays! And Boy Toy and I are no exception. We've been dabbling in chastity play with first a Houdini, and then a CB6000 I bought, since almost the beginning of our relationship... Imagine, before I met Boy Toy, I don’t think I even knew such devices existed for men. I mean, I knew about the medieval chastity belts for women. That was about the extent of my knowledge on the subject. Then Boy Toy told me that an ex girlfriend of his had bought this device, called the Houdini. He showed me a picture (which I included below, and yes, it’s a picture of him). He told me how scared he was of this object. Ah, now I was interested!

And it’s not the sadistic part of me that was interested! I’m playful, remember? I like the idea of playing games with Boy Toy, of having our little secrets, our explorations and adventures. Obviously, he was turned on by the idea of being locked up and giving up control of his orgasms to me. And obviously very nervous. So I decided this was something I desired. I mean, just thinking about this object had him blushing and blustering, so I just had to try! I don’t remember exactly how I got him to lock it on. I know it’s something that’s very hard for him to do. He’d often told me I would have to tie him up, first, or catch him or trick him, somehow. But I didn’t have to, he had agreed to lock it on for me. It must have been one of those early games we would play, I must have win this somehow. Maybe he remembers? I’ll ask him… Oh, but I remember one part of the “deal”, now: he was to be locked up, and I was to wear only boots. Great deal, in my opinion, since me being half-naked turned him on (especially wearing boots, he has a fetish for that) and he couldn't do anything about it... Kind of the point, if you ask me. I don’t actually remember much about the whole thing. Just that I was feeling a bit uneasy with this new power I had over him. I’d always been such a… fair person, in my relationships, in everything. I’ve often been told I’m too nice, and that’s the truth. And now, here I was, holding the key to his orgasms, and him, begging, begging me to release him. Looking back, I think he’s never begged me so much as that first time. I must have told him I didn’t like his begging. This first lockup didn’t last very long at all. A few hours, at most. I was a little uncomfortable with it, to be frank. Especially because of his begging. This was the most extreme we’d gone so far. I did enjoy the experience, though. I especially had fun teasing him and keeping him wet and breathless the whole time. And in the end, I was surprised to find that this turned me on, too. When Boy Toy realized that I was wet from keeping him locked up, I think he got a little scared ;) Once I thought I had kept him on edge long enough, I unlocked him and, of course, we had sex. It was hot. It always is, with Boy Toy. But this time was especially hot. At the time, I thought I had kept him locked for quite a while… Yeah yeah, you can laugh at me, especially you, GoodHubby and Tom ;) It’s an experiment we have since repeated. In fact, I bought a CB6000 last winter. Boy Toy and I have this agreement: he gives me an allowance every month to buy sex toys. The CB was the first I bought, and he was quite impressed with my choice. Now, I haven't bought anything in months because I am "saving up" for a Steelwerks Chastity Cage. I should have enough in the "bank" to buy it in October... Boy Toy better not back out of this! The longest I’ve kept him locked up was five days, while I was away on business. This was the last time I had him locked for any significant period of time, I think. And it was nice. It seems to me he was much more available. I didn’t have much time to chat, as I was working, but when I did have time, seems to me he was always there. He was more deferential. Or it seems to me like he was. It also seems to me we had better conversations and fewer contradictions. He was more attentive, more willing to listen to my points of view… Of course, he’ll just say he was the same as usual, and maybe he was. After all, he is quite a great Boy Toy.