As I was saying in my first post, until I started dating Boy Toy about a year ago, I had never been very wild at all when it comes to sex. I mean, I had sex, don’t get me wrong, but it was all very normal. I’ve done a lot of things for the first time, since that fateful night last summer. My Boy Toy drew me out of my shell, so to speak.

It started with pictures. That, I had done before. I was seeing a guy for a while and one of our kicks was to take naughty pictures of ourselves and send them to each other. Ok, so nothing new here, nothing scary. What was a little different with Boy Toy was that I’d make him work for the pictures. I would take very sexy pictures of myself, pictures I knew he’d love, and I would send them to him, but on some conditions! A massage in exchange for a few pictures, for example. Or I would give him an assignment. This was fun, and still familiar territory. He seemed to really love the pictures and that helped me feel more confident, and perhaps more bold. It drew some playfulness and dominance out of me, what with giving him assignments… And one particular assignment I gave him led me to buy my first sex toy!

I had taken a particularly hot batch of pictures, and in exchange I asked him to tell me 3 things that turn him on. I was pretty proud of my idea because I wanted to have some leverage, I wanted to know how to really turn him on… I had asked him similar questions before but he’d always say that it was more fun if I found out on my own.

Imagine my surprise when it took almost a whole evening of chatting for him to explain his turn ons! Forget the simple things like, a girl wearing boots, or being touched a certain way. No. For Boy Toy, arousal is very much in the head. That was new! I mean, he had told me so before, but this is when I started to really see it… I’m sure it’s true for most people, too, but I guess I just hadn’t thought of it that way before.

So his turn ons were more like situations. Two of them, I’ve done since. One is just not something I’m interested in. I can’t say never… but I highly doubt I’ll ever do it

But the one that interests us for this particular story is this: we’re out in public and I’m wearing a remote control vibrator, while he holds the remote. Ohhhhh! How naughty! But not too over the top for me, good start. Besides, this was all very new and exciting, and I felt like we were two naughty conspirators. I just couldn’t stop now!

Not long after he told me this, I was out of town visiting a friend and oh, coincidence, we went to a sex shop. Ok, maybe it was my idea. Anyway, while my girlfriends were shopping for good old dildos and vibrators, I bought a Remote control vibrating egg. My friends and I all took turns holding it and feeling it vibrate and marvelling at it and they probably all thought I was crazy, knowing how I’d use it…

And we did try it, pretty much as soon as I got back in town. It was somewhat disappointing, unfortunately. I mean, the idea of going to a club with the egg in me and the remote control in my Boy Toy’s pocket is really exhilarating. But the vibrations are felt from the inside, which just didn’t do much for me. While it was fun exchanging conspiratorial glances every time he pushed a button, I didn’t get turned on much. And the batteries die really quickly, and are super expensive. When I decided to buy all new batteries to replace the ones in the egg and in the remote, it cost me up to $20. Add that to the $80 I paid for the egg, it was getting expensive.

We did run into another problem with it, too. At one point, the remote control stopped working, so the egg just kept on vibrating. We had a good laugh at that one. We were leaving the club, picking up our coats at the coatcheck… Our conversation went something like this:

Me: Ok, you can stop it now…
Him: I did. It’s still going?
Me: Yes.
Him: Now?
Me: Still going.
Him: Now?
Me: Still…
Him: What about now??? I think it’s not working anymore…

Fun times. It ended up stopping by itself, just a few minutes later. It’s not as bad as it sounds, you become sort of numb to the vibrations and sometimes I couldn’t even tell if it was vibrating or not!

But I think the worse thing that happened while wearing it was… Well, I needed to go to the bathroom. I think you can all guess what happened… LOL  So I had to pick it out of the toilet. But I couldn’t bring it to the sink and wash it, there were other girls there. So I wiped it as well I could with toilet paper, threw it in my purse, and when I came back out I told Boy Toy that it was no use pressing that button…

I don’t think I’ve used the egg since. The idea was great but the toy just doesn’t work for me. Still, not too bad for a start, no? We’ve been talking ever since of getting the Remote control butterfly vibrator, but just haven’t gotten around to it. It looks like it vibrates in just the right spot… I am adding it to my Wish List right now